Creating a Third Place: Escaping the Work-School Grind for a Moment
When you work full-time, go to school full-time, and manage a part-time internship—plus try to maintain a social life—it can feel like you're always rushing from one obligation to the next. For a while, I didn’t even realize I was missing something essential: space for myself. Not another to-do list or assignment, but a place where I could just do whatever. One day while scrolling through TikTok, I came across a video of a girl talking about something she called a “third space.” She described it as a place separate from work, home, or school—a spot that exists outside the usual responsibilities and pressure. It’s not about being productive or checking something off a list; it’s just a space where you can simply be without adding more to your plate. Since then, I’ve started carving out these little third spaces in my routine. For me, it’s a local coffee shop like Zion or CXT, where I can sit with a latte and a sweet treat, maybe read or get some light work done, without...